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My Service Offerings:
Clearings and Negative Entity Removal
Pendulum Healing and Clarity Sessions
Lessons on Accessing Phryll for Self Healing
I also do professional.digital marketing and business consulting services, catering to counsellors and those starting up 5d businesses -
go to mariannegraffdigital.com
How much does a session cost? How long is a session?
Pay what you wish on Sundays
What is 'Compassionate Listening'?
Compassionate listening has been described as 'deep listening'. There are a series of techniques to do this. I have taken a course from Compassionate Listening.org to learn how to expand my listening abilities in this manner, and am grateful for this excellent course and recommend it to everyone. I have always enjoyed listening with genuine interest to people's stories and my whole life I have found that strangers on buses and in cafes and other places strike up conversations with me and tell me their deep inner truths and stories that show the essence of their beings. I have always found it easy to honour, respect and treasure people's stories and keep confidences, so compassionate listening as a service is a natural fit for me,
The effect of using deep listening techniques for objectively hearing what a person is saying and asking questions to clarify facts, feelings and values is that it creates a safe place where people feel they can share their true self and not be judged, but truly understood.
While not officially classified as therapy by medical organizations, being listened to, truly listened to, is very therapeutic. Try it and see!
You can tell when the other person is listening with their heart, and not judging, stereotyping, diagnosing, or just waiting for you to stop talking so that they can have a turn. Often, just having the chance to talk and hear yourself say things outloud without interruption can help you get clarity about a situaiton and see a way forward that you couldn't see before you spoke your story out loud or answered open ended questions about your issue.
A compassionate listening session feels like talking to a close confidant who is an excellent listener.
Many people don't have someone like this in their lives, Others prefer talking to a stranger to get a fresh perspective on a situation or incident that is bothering them or to talk something through.
To be clear, compassionate listening can help in many situations, but it does not replace the need for professional counselling for serious and persistent issues the need trained assessment and help resolving.
I am not offering medical advice, or professional counselling. Just expert listening.
Usually people arrive at their own solutions on their own and don't need someone to solve their problems or advise them how to resolve a conflict.
In the words of Thich Nhat Hanh:
"Deep listening is the kind of listening that can help relieve the suffering of another person. You can call it compassionate listening. You listen with only one purpose: to help him or her to empty his heart...
Because you know that listening like that, you give that person a chance to suffer less. If you want to help him to correct his perception, you wait for another time...You just listen with compassion and help him to suffer less. One hour like that can bring transformation and healing."
How and when did you came across Compassionate Listening, and what led you to start offering it as a service?
I first decided to offer compassionate listening as a service in June 2021, after re-reading a book with my son that had been a childhood favourite of mine: "Momo" by Michael Ende. The protagonist is an orphan girl who helps and endears herself to the neighbourhood she moves into through her natural ability to listen with patience and with full attention to people, and they miraculously discover solutions to their own problems after talking about them out loud with her.
I decided that if I was to offer this as a professional service, perhaps I should see if there is professional certification available. I did a simple search in Google for 'compassionate listening courses' and the compassionatelistening.org courses came up. Their courses were exactly what I wanted.
There has never been a better time or more need to offer this kind of service, in my opinion.
I had been thinking for a few years about what services to offer to people and how to help the people in the world overcome the huge divisions being created in society all over the world today.
I have long known that people can't come to a peaceful place and resolve conflict until everyone involved has felt truly heard and understood, and feelings as well as facts acknowledged and understood by all parties.
Although a lot of division is created by what I would call 'negative forces' in the world, and amplified by the main stream media, I have noticed that people are quick to shut down conversations (cancel culture) and there is a spectacular lack of objective listening and compassion. There is rarely any attempt to understand the perspective of another, or truly listen to what people are saying anymore. I know this from personal experience and from watching others in conversation all around me.
Going through a spiritual awakening can be very lonely and confusing and having someone to witness you and your journey and validate you and your experiences. Having someone ready to listen for as long as it takes for you to talk things through can be amazing. It can be just the thing you need to discover your own solutions and feel you have processed something enough to feel healed, and ready to move on, and finally able to do so.
After I 'awoke' and started questioning the narrative pushed by the main stream media, or offered opinions different than the people around me, I was shut down and alienated, labelled a conspiracy theorist and categorically rejected in all ways. I was even fired from one job because the Principal was very political and thought I held political opinions that were opposite his own. Most recently, when trying to share my research and concerns and have conversations about the vaxx, the reaction was even more instant and extreme and everything I said was ignored by friends and family. It has been a very lonely road to walk.
In the past when I booked sessions with a psychic or channeller who I knew would understand my spiritual awakening and would be receptive and understanding of my 'supernatural' incidents, all they did was talk the whole time. The most gifted psychic that I booked a second session with didn't remember me at all when she saw me the second time, and I felt so insignificant, diminished, deflated, and demoralized by that experience. I wanted to offer something different that healed, not just informed people and gave advice about how to get on a '5d path'.
I also realized that I would never pay a traditional psychologist to listen to me since I didn't consider them 'problems' , my experiences weren't affecting my ability to cope in everyday life, and I didn't want to be 'judged', 'diagnosed, 'categorized' or 'fixed'. I am not religious, and my spiritual views do not fit with any church, so contacting a religious leader was not an option in my world.
I just wanted to talk and feel truly heard and understood and not negatively judged, and I didn't have anyone in my life who could do that for me. I also wanted to talk to someone I knew would 'get me' and was 'awake', and able to offer helpful suggestions if I asked for them.
I know how much it helped me when I finally people I felt comfortable enough telling my 'awakening story' to, and the relief, liberation and connection I felt after sharing some of my 'supernatural' experiences with a trusted friend a couple of years ago.
Since I would pay for this service, I figured others would too. Especially if they felt the listener could really 'get' them and wouldn't judge them, and would keep things confidential regardless. Sometimes explaining things to a stranger offers a fresh perspective on a situation or problem or emotional issue, and it's easier than talking to someone who already knows you and may have preconceived ideas about you or what you are going to say.
The course that I took about compassionate listening gave me more tools and practice time to apply the new listening skills we had been learning. This course confirmed how healing the experience of being listened to can be. I highly recommend this course to everyone. Personally , I think these listening skills are an essential tool that everyone should have in their relationship and 'human - kind' toolkit. www.compassionatelistening.org
In fact, I am interested in building a network of trained compassionate listeners to join my team. Let me know if you are interested.
What can I expect from a session with you?
I begin all my sessions by lighting a candle and doing an invocation to clear out any negative energy and call in positive 100% light energy and guides, and set the tone for a confidential, sacred and respectful place to talk.
I review what is is we will do in the session . Usually a client is asked which services they want ahead of time.
It usually makes the most sense to start with compassionate listening, then move into a clarity session using a pendulum, and to finish up with a guided meditation.
During the listening segment, you can expect me to sit quietly, looking at you and listening fully to what you are saying. I won't interrupt to ask questions until the timer chimes. Then I will lapse into silence thinking over what was just said . The silence is golden, and lets the speaker have some time to reflect and process the emotions raised silently. Then I will ask some questions to confirm the facts I heard and open questions to clarify which feelings you felt and then I will reflect back the values I heard and connections I have made in what you said. The questions I ask often lead the speaker to explain more and deepen their inital response and provide necessary background information or clarification. Often, by explaining more, the speaker will come across solutions to their issue or see a way forward after reflecting on the situation in depth.
Sometimes, if the situation warrants it, I may ask you to imagine what the person you had a conflict with might have been thinking and feeling and valuing in the moment of the conversation. This helps enormously to come to a deeper understanding of the motivations and behaviours of others, even seemingly inexplicable ones.
I won't provide any advice or suggestions unless you ask for my opinions. If the situation is still unresolved at the end, so be it.
Usually just talking about it is enough to feel emotional release and healing.
What is a 'Clearing'?
A 'clearing' is a way to remove negative energy from a room, attached to a person, or from around a person. A clearing helps to establish positive energy and creates a safe space for talking and listening without 'interference'.
A clearing is a way to come back to feeling centered and balanced and bring in positive and protective energy to create a sacred place for discussing problems and sharing deep feelings.
I have always had the ability to bring positive energy into a space and conversation. I am a 'high vibe' person and I say a short mantra at the beginning of every session to clear the energy, set the mood and create positive and supportive energy to protect myself from negative vibes, and the person who has booked a session with me.
I am not religious in a traditional sense, but very spiritual, and have always had a strong connection with Angels (the Elohim)
What is a 'negative entity'? How do you remove them?
A negative entity is a being from the lower 3rd or lower 4th dimension (or another dimension). Sometimes they are called demons or ghosts. Sometimes they are malevolent beings from other planets. I was born with the ability to exorcize, or remove, these sorts of beings. They can attach themselves to you unseen and drain your energy and keep you 'stuck' in ruts and in places and rooted in negative situations that you just can't seem to break away from and don't know why.
Sometimes they attach themselves to you as you move about your day and go into areas of low energy and density where they lurk (e..g haunted places). Sometimes they are bothering you because of a curse placed on you. Sometimes they jump in when your protection and energy is low.
They thrive off low energy and misery and can give you 'bad luck' or unfortunate circumstances or cause accidents to generate the negative energy they feed off of.
I can remove these from you and provide you with tools to protect yourself in the present and future. I do this by invoking a higher density being, a being of 100% lights (e.g. your guardian angels or the archangels). I can teach you how to do this for yourself as well.
Sometimes negative entities or demons actually enter inside a person, but only in rare occasions, and usually when they have been invited in by the person. I can remove these as well , if the person asks for it (but usually the don't want to let go of their demons in these situations.). I operate on a basis of free will.
What is 'Pendulum Healing'? How does a Pendulum work? How can it lead to 'clarity'?
I have a very strong and positive connection to source and have always found using a pendulum easy and insightful. A pendulum, which is simply something on a chain or a thread, always responds very quickly and obviously to me and my thoughts and questions.
In a session I use a pendulum to connect to my higher self, Elohim Angels, and to your higher self ,to ask questions and the answers are very visibly indicated by the swing of my pendulum. I use charts and draw personalized charts based on what you say and what your questions are to ask Spirit (which is what I call the source field of all consciousness, or the divine). We keep asking until full clarity is achieved and my client is satisfied they have as complete an answer as possible.
This service is useful to helping people discover the root cause of physical dis -ease and issues, emotional blocks, and in order to get direction and assistance in making decisions, or checking facts.
There is a strong correlation between spiritual and emotional healing and physical healing. In my experience, physical healing often happens after an emotional block or deep trauma is discovered, released and healed with loving compassion (unless a soul has chosen to suffer from a particular physical illness in order to learn a life lesson, in which case we can ask Spirit if this is the case and if the suffering can be relieved or must be endured).
If you agree, I can invoke your higher self and what I call my angelic team to 'reboot' your system and assist you in whatever healing needs to happen on a spiritual level that will assist your body in physical healing.
DISCLAIMER: Pendulum healing is not intended to replace official medical diagnosis, advice or treatment. I am not responsible for any consequences, intended or unintended. I seek to help people connect to their own higher selves and empower them to heal themselves.
What is Phyrll? Can anyone learn how use it?
Phryll is what I call the life force energy field that is all around us. It is freely available to everyone, and all beings. It is simply there. Anyone can tap into it, for a variety of purposes.
I believe it is the same as what is called 'chi' in China, the energy used in reiki, prana energy and tesla's free energy source.
I first heard the word 'Phryll' in a video by Elena Danaan where she channels a being called 'Annax', and he describes phryll energy in detail. They use Phryll to power their ship and heal and provide free energy. When I heard Annax describe Phyrll, I instantly recognized this as the energy that comes over me and that I have used to protect myself in life threatening situations and also to heal myself and others of serious illness.
To hear more about this, you are welcome to watch my video interview with Eliza Herrera in 2021 where I explain how it feels and how I tap into this, and how you can do this too. (Linked below)
I have had session requests to teach people how to tap into Phyrll and if you want me to guide you through a personalized meditation to learn first hand how I focus and tap into Pyrll, I am open to this idea.
Have a question I haven't answered? Please email it to me at notyourtypicalmom at protonmail dot com.